Systemic couples therapy
"You and I - we are one . I can't hurt you without myself hurt"
Living relationships can be challenging. And sometimes it helps to have a neutral person at the table during emotionally charged conversations. Michelle Obama descriped wonderfully the start of her marriage counseling: "Mr. X, please tell my husband what he should do better now, how he can fix himself." She quickly learned that there isn't ONE culprit, but that a relationship is work. Work that you have to tackle together.
That stands in our way
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Communication problems
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Separation intentions
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Sexual problems
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We can't talk anymore!
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We're just fighting!
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jealousy
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Patchwork family constellation
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Nothing connects us anymore
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I don't feel understood
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The other person never listens to me
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Conversations always get the same emotional
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I feel like I'm talking to a block of ice
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Fling
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mistrust
We want to go there
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Being able to talk about problems
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Finding solutions together
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To be heard and seen by the other person
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A fulfilling sex life
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A peaceful separation
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To be able to forgive mistakes
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build up trust
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Preparation for wedding
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Discuss unfulfilled desire to have children
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Coping with Patchwork Family structure
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Accept ex-partners
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Implement common plans for the future
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Pulling in the same direction when it comes to education